Tuesday, October 22, 2013

True Friend

10.22.13

Job 11.6b Know then that God exacts of you less than your guilt deserves. (ESV)

Imagine the group of codgers having coffee at the local McDonalds in the morning. Their conversation ranges in topic from medical to political and everything in between. They talk about who is sick, who has died, and what malady they themselves are currently dealing with. At times the conversation raises in intensity, and at times it ebbs in understanding.

Job was really sick. He was sick in body and sick in heart. He was confused and concerned. And three of his friends come to offer him their perspective: Job, nothing happens for nothing; there has to be a reason for this season; surely you’ve done something to deserve this. And Job’s buddy Zophar chides Job: God [has given you] less that your guilt deserves.

Some friend in need… Nothing happens for nothing.

We do get less than our guilt deserves. If there is such a thing as guilt. “And no longer shall each one teach his neighbor and each his brother, saying, ‘Know the Lord,’ for they shall all know me, from the least of them to the greatest, declares the Lord. For I will forgive their iniquity, and I will remember their sin no more.” (Jeremiah 31:34) It seems God is less concerned about our sin than He is about our growth in Him.

Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits…The Lord is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love. He will not always chide, nor will he keep his anger forever. He does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his steadfast love toward those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far does he remove our transgressions from us. (Psalm 103.2, 8-12) No, we don’t get what we deserve; but what we do get, if we’ll take it, is Him.

It sure seems God has gone a long way out of His way to restore the likes of us to a place of perfect friendship. It sure seems God is more interested in our being with Him and learning all He has to offer than He is with beating us into submission over the stupid things we have done and continue to do. It sure seems that way because it’s true – that’s what His word says He’s up to.

It is the smallness of man that says, “You’re getting what you deserve! God is repaying you for your sins! You can only be saved if you get circumcised!” Horses#$%! God wants to be our Friend, not our Prosecutor. He’s our Defense. He’s our Fortress and Strong Tower. He’s our relief. He is our Freedom. God wants us to see what He sees and He sees love and compassion and serving others in their need (just like He does with us.)

I notice Job’s friends don’t ever offer to pray for him. I notice Job’s friends are more interested in fixing him than allowing God to teach him; to redeem him, to heal him. I notice circumcision doesn’t ever get once mentioned in the Book that bears his name.

Father, it is about Your love, Your grace, and Your restoring me through Jesus Christ to that place of friendship with You. Weed from me the evil in my heart that clings to the thought that we get what we deserve when things go wrong. Help me Lord to be a friend like Jesus, rather than the friends like Job’s… amen!

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